Re: marriage falling apart
Hi Mothermac
I felt so sad reading your post, but know where you are coming from.
Marriages are tested to the limit with all the usual things, kids, money, family issues, work, add an illness into the mix and and it can be a volcano waiting to erupt. I am not saying it will be easy but things can improve from here, but i suppose it needs both parties to try to make that work. I am so sorry that you feel so unloved and sad, I think men in generally, although i know its not all men, but they find it difficult to express their feelings, or what they say , to a women it can sound a bit off or harsh, but to them they are being factual, or to the point, i have the same discussions with my husband, and he honestly believes he is not saying/doing anything wrong... very frustating.
i dont know where you go from here on in, but i suppose one of the first things would be to keep communicating with each other, i hope you find a way to work through this.
sending you hugs and best wishes
P x :hugs:
Re: marriage falling apart
Hi Mothermac,It sounds to me like he has the problem,with his snoring and grinding teeth,that is enough to drive anyone to sleep in separate beds,I have had anxiety and panic for years and my old man works away,which I really love,but I do miss him,as over the years he has been my rock.He was the one who used to take care of our daughter when I was at my low point,he made sure that she had clean clothes and cooked for us both,he is a bikie and is a heavy smoker and drinker,but underneath that tough exterior,is a kind and loving man.It sounds like your hubby is just bloody selfish,I'm sorry for saying that,but if that was my old man I would kick him up the bum and send him to therapy.You keep your chin up and just look after you and your daughter,Take Care.
Rhonda xx:flowers: