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Relationship is over
My boyfriend has just split up with me and I don't know what to do.
We've known each other years before we started a relationship and have been going out with each other for 6 years. For the past couple of years we've had our problems due to my anxiety. He wants to go to places with him but I haven't been able to.
We've had arguments before and he's walked out sometimes before. But this time is different.
He's been a bit off with me on and off today. About an hour ago I wrote down how I felt and explained how he'd been today and how it was getting to me. I couldn't get anywhere with him about it, it just made him annoyed and say more things to me. I don't feel able to say what happened next, but I told him to leave and he said he'd had enough and left me a message on my phone. I'd been lending him my old mobile phone and he's left that here so that I can't ring him.
The message he's left me on my phone is to say it's over, i'm through with you, good bye.
I don't know what to do. I keep changing between not knowing how to feel and then feeling sad. We were going to spend time together and it's Easter and I don't know if he'll come back to me or if it's really over. Just don't know what to do.
Heather
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So sorry to hear that Heather, I realy hope things turn out better for you. Take car. Vernon
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Heather
I really feel for you - I hope you manage to work things out. I am going through something similar so if you need an listening ear then feel free to PM me.
Take care of yourself and I am sure he will be in touch soon.
Darkangel
........life is for living not just for surviving
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Heather
Im sorry to hear your news. it may seem cruel but if the thing is over its over, the sooner you move on the better, dont dwell on it I know its hard but if you dwell you will send yourself in a downaward spiral. I hope you come out of this a better person
Keith
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Thank you everyone for your replies, I wanted to update on what's happened.
We've had a chat over the phone and he's told me he still loves me and some times my anxiety gets to him. He's coming back to see me.
It does put a strain on our relationship at times, me being agoraphobic and having other anxiety related problems. I'm determined to get better.
Darkangel, I'm sorry you've been going through something similar, thank you for the offer to PM. You can PM me too if you want to. Hope things get better for you.
I just wanted to let you all know that i'm ok and thank you for your replies.
Heather
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Hi Heather,
Just wanted to say I hope everything turns out well for you.
Coni X
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i hope everything goes well and you are ok
bellx
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Hi Heather,
I hope everything goes will for you.
Jo x x
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Thank you Coni, lilbell and joanne.
He came round last night and we had a talk. I'm not totally feeling clear in my mind about things. But I know that it's my anxiety problems that causes the problems. It really gets to him, which I do understand. I just wish I knew how to help him.
Take Care,
Heather