Going crazy because I sqaushed a cockroach
Please help me rationalize my OCD is beating me.
The other night I opened my fridge and there was a cockroach in the bottom of it. I went to get a clear container to move it outside because I hate killing insects. So then I get the container and get an intrusive OCD thought "This is life or death, kill it or you are in danger". So I just give into the OCD thought and instead of getting it in the container I use the bottom of the container to squash the cockroach. The bloody bottom of the container is clear and was not quite flat but rounded so I just injured the crap out of it and one of it's legs was twitching. I could see the whole thing. I kept trying to squash it more and more and it did not quite kill it. It let out this stink gas smell and I brushed it out of the bottom of the fridge onto the tiled floor, it was twitching and I stepped on it finishing it off, it was the goriest **** I have ever seen. I completely panicked and got the bug and put it outside in the bin. I cleaned the area and tried to forget about it. I let my dogs in hoping they would 'cleanse' the area because they kill bugs all the time but I still feel really bad and mental.
I just feel this overwhelming feeling of guilt that won't go away and I feel like my entire living room is contaminated. I keep trying to think how pest control operators kill thousands of cockroaches each year without a second thought so why can't I let it go? I feel so guilty and worry that something will happen to me now. My OCD is really getting the better of me.
Can someone help me rationalize this? Have you squashed a cockroach and felt guilty? I feel like a twit worrying about this but I can't let it go. I am worried that I have bad karma now. I know I can't just never go in my living room again that would be silly. Please advise..
Re: Going crazy because I sqaushed a cockroach
Squashing bugs is nasty but its gotta be done! Remember, bugs are not complex enough to feel upset and horrified at being squashed, they just have a little brain that is telling the body, "getting squashed, move as much as possible to try to escape". For a human to get squashed would be entirely different.
I know how you feel because once there was a large spider on the wall so I picked up my mums sliiper and just....yeah you can guess and it made a mess. We thought it was hilarious at first but I quickly progressed from laughing into tears of horror and guilt!
The fact that you feel guilty about a small thing like this shows what a sensitive person you are, you have a high level of empathy and it's part of the reason you have anxiety problems. You won't find this such a problem when you are better, your rationalization is off at the moment :)
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As for the karma, you are acually doing the bug a favour in Buddhism, as the bug will be reborn into the next lifeform and get closer to Nirvana again :D I'm not Bhuddist though bt RS lessons do come in handy sometimes :D
Re: Going crazy because I sqaushed a cockroach
Hey Pancho,
Thankyou so much for the rationalization and help. I owe ya one! It has really helped me to deal with this situation right now. I keep repeating over and over in my head in response to the thoughts what you said about doing it a favor. Also you said my rationalization is off at the moment - that is definitely true. I have to figure out how to get better. I will post a post asking this in now. Thanks mate.