Re: The blame game and where did IT come from!
Hi Crazy C
After suffering for 16 years (from my late teens), my mum told me last week that she suffers too (not in so many words because she didn't want to go into it in detail). She asked me if it could be her fault, and whilst I don't blame my mum, it certainly explains a lot about me and my condition.
I've been going back over my life and key events and I can certainly see how I could have inherited anxiety - both my mother and I are perfectionists in many (though differing) aspects of our lives, we worry about other people a lot, we have obsessional thoughts at times, we dwell on things for a long time, we are both very sensative to others opinions of us, the list goes on.
I believe it's more the nature/nuture cycle than an inherited condition, but I don't know enough about genetics so who knows.
One thing I do know is that my daughter gets quite anxious too, she's 7, BUT I hope she's young enough for me to be able to help her overcome it now.
Our parents will always treat us as their babies, no matter what age we are, but as the youngest, it's probably very hard for them to remember you're an adult. Once they see you standing on your own two feet, living away from them their attitudes will shift, but you'll always be their baby, even when you're 50!
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