I am going to attend a requiem mass tomorrow for a next door neighbour who has died. They moved away and she died on New Years Eve. I'm not sure what to wear (I am an Anglican) and we normally wear black for funerals. The body is already at the Church so they won't bring it out and in again will they? Can anyone advise? I'm in a real panic as I know I shall feel quite emotional. Have been asked to sing in the choir but I will probably stand at the back out of the way. I know that I won't be able to take Communion. EJ