Re: Slightly abnormal mole
sometimes they don't like to 'over do it' when it comes to removing and traumatizing the skin with so many biopsies which is why they do the wait for changes approach with any 'slightly abnormal' mole. as all have mentioned, if it really looked worrisome they would remove it. I have hundreds of moles as I am fair haired and fair skinned and lol MOST of them are 'wait and see if any changes' because it just doesn't make sense to remove all. I know it can be a little stressful but don't stare or obsess, just pick a time once a month to do a general scan of yourself to monitor ANY changes, otherwise, leave it alone!!
if you stare and obsess constantly you wouldn't notice changes anyway. In addition, if this helps, as a general rule .. even 'abnormal' looking moles are usually fine, as I said I have hundreds that looks 'abnormal' .. it's usually only when they look weird for YOUR body, ie like no other mole you've ever had .. then you should monitor for changes. even then likely to be nothing but the doc knows what to look for, just get it checked out and no big deal
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