I am really having an anxiety spaz right now. It is about 5:30 AM and I woke up early here, having trouble sleeping bc I increased my lexapro from 10 to 20 mg Thursday due to increasing depression again. So struggling anyway but I was hopeful that I would be back to myself soon.
Well f*ck that! You may have seen my earlier posts being worried about my sister's husband coming home with her, but at least knowing my dad said he was not allowed anywhere near our family. (If you didn't read, he did some really traumatizing things to me last year ... not getting into it here) I also told my dad it would really hurt my feelings if this guy was allowed back into our family because he ahd done it when I was younger, I told my family, and somehow they FORGAVE him. Well then it happened again last year and everybody swore he was not allowed in the family anymore.
Well just noticed pictures on facebook of him at my dad's house celebrating. My dad promised he was not allowed in the house and would not support him or let him be anywhere near any of us. I just feel so betrayed by my family. I am so mad and upset that they are letting him back in the family again.
It may sound trivial, but I don't know if I want to go spend Christmas eve with them tomorrow. I am so upset and angry.
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You know, it makes me so mad. The last time he abused me I was 15 and 16 years old. Nobody supported me. They let him right back into the family. Then he abused me again and I said, this is the last time. I swore up and down to my dad and my sister that if they started letting him be around anymore and be with the family again I was out. Well, that's it. I'm out I guess. Turns out that I really am the only person who can protect myself.