Originally Posted by
Arnie365
Through my cbt I acknowledge the thought and then analyse it. What was it and what triggered it, how did I feel and respond or want to respond then assess what evidence and facts there are to support the negative thought and the what evidence is there against it. I'm doing this over and over and even though i find it boring I guess I'm training my sub conscious to do this automatically. It's re training my brain to be rational.
The other thing with the thoughts is to accept them for exactly what they are, just thoughts and remember your thoughts are not always facts! In one cbt book I have it says to picture a river which is you and the thoughts as leafs drifting down the river. Look at the leaves, see them (acknowledge the thought) and watch it drift on by.
Takes quite a lot of practice but give it a go.