I wasn't sure wether to put this under the health anxiety section, but that seems to be much more about personal health. I have long had a preoccupation with the health of my dog, she was hit by a car about 5 years ago and broke her pelvis, since then she has had issue after issue that has needed vet attention. Some of these I know I have overreacted about, but others it seems the vets were as worried if not sometimes more so than me.
I never quite know when I take her to the vets if I'm really honestly worried about her or if it's some anxiety related mindset that makes me overreact. I have tried to get people I know to give me honest answers but they always seem to just want to mindlessly confirm whatever I think.
I have put Shadow through so much, x-rays, anaesthetics, probing and iodine injections, the specialist is talking about MRI scans and surgery as the next step as all the work so far has just ruled out certain things. We know what's not wrong with her... what if there really is nothing beyond a little awkwardness from the old injuries.
I am only one, but still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do.