Hi there,
I was wondering if anyone else has issues with family or parents that are making their anxiety worse? My main problem seems to be with my Mum she doesn't seem to understand my anxiety. Whilst I can understand how frustrating it is for her I feel that she is only making me worse. I have been on some new medication that makes me feel drowsy in the morning and I find it hard to get out of bed, she will scream at me most mornings to get out of bed, so loud that I think all the neighbours must know my problems by now, she says things to me that are hurt me when she's angry such as ''you'll never get better'' or ''you need to get a life'' or ''what did I do to deserve this'' she will start crying.
We went out the other day and I had a panic attack in the car with her but instead of her trying to help me through it she just started shouting at me telling me how much it frustrates her, safe to say it made me worse.
I can't help feeling that I've completely let her down, I feel she must be ashamed of me, compared to my other brothers and sisters I must seem like a complete freak to her. We have had arguments on arguments and I have told her not to speak to me like crap and told her how it makes me feel but come the next argument she's back doing the same thing. She has been to a few therapy sessions with me, I have let her read articles about what I'm going through and whilst she's sympathetic at the time, that seems to go out the window when she gets frustrated.
You would not believe that I am 21 by the way she speaks to me, the anxiety makes me feel almost childlike, it makes me feel very vulnerable and that I could never handle life on my own two feet, even though I did before this happened. Whilst I do understand how much it upsets her I don't think she grasps how frustrating it is for me and how trapped I feel by all this. If I could live in a calm household or not be shouted at every morning I think it would make my life a hell of a lot easier.
Sorry this is so long, thanks to anyone who replies.