This is going to sound...bizarre and awful, probably. And I'm not sure I'm posting it in the right place. But I don't know where to put it. Tell me if this isn't the right place.
I don't trust myself any more, at all. I don't know if I have anxiety. I find myself more worried that I've been faking it for years for attention than I am about the anxiety itself. Supposedly I'm medical/needle phobic, but I'm not diagnosed, I've never had treatment, and yet I feel *so* different from how I did a couple of years ago. Or at least I think I do.
I'm analysing every response I have to every trigger I come across and I can't tell if I'm faking this or not. My muscles tend to go into spasm when I get a visual trigger or I try to picture something related to the phobia. But I keep thinking, that's nothing I couldn't be doing myself subconsciously. Have I just got so convinced I'm scared that I'm hanging on to it? Why would I do that?
I have this conviction that the one thing I can't alter consciously or subconsciously is my heart rate. Last week we were told at school that there was going to be a talk given on blood donation and I did panic properly,or what I would consider to be proper. I felt horrible for the rest of the day but at the same time there was this relief because it felt like proof, but why would I want to be anxious? Surely the relief in itself is proof that this isn't real?
I haven't seen a doctor in more than a year for any reason, and I still don't think I can go into a medical environment. But I don't know why. I used to have every reason under the sun for why I was scared and now I just don't know. I am analysing every feeling and physiological response I have and I'm getting locked into this cycle of being anxious-->analysing whether I actually am-->not believing I am-->just damn well not knowing what the hell I'm feeling any more.
The thing is that most of the time I'm fine and not anxious without any triggers around me, but I'm not much of anything else either. I'm not *happy*. I can't get excited about anything, and nothing seems to evoke any sort of emotional response in me at all any more. I'm a musician, and even music isn't doing anything for me any more. I can't even bloody cry. Last week when I was what I would consider to be properly panicked suddenly it was as if the floodgates had opened and even though I felt physically awful everything meant something for the first time in ages and ages and I was responding to stuff. I was crying buckets...and it felt like such a relief.
Now the shutters are back down. I feel like my brain is in a fog and I'm so much more stupid than I was when I was anxious. But then thinking that, it's like I want to be anxious, and that's horrible. I don't want to be anxious or normal, if this is normality.
I'm sorry this is so long. I'm just looking to see if anyone has any advice at all, really. If I'm deluding myself or if I'm deluding myself about deluding myself. I don't know if any of the attacks I used to get were real.
I suspect I'm just being awful and looking for validation, but really, any advice is good advice.
I'm sorry.