Hi all,
I've not been here for a while as have been having psychologist sessions which have really helped me ... but the subject of this thread is nearly always at the back of my mind. I don't get huge anxiety attacks about it, just huge pangs of sadness and an anxious feeling that it'll never happen for me.
We have been trying to conceive since late September which I KNOW isn't that long in the grand scheme of things but we haven't been successful yet. I have left all the online baby groups I was a member of but my Facebook seems to be flooded at the moment with scan pictures and newborn babies whereas for me it hasn't happened.
Logically I know I shouldn't be worrying yet but when anxiety kicks in ... well, you know the rest, right? A lad at work today had to rush home as his wife was in labour with their third, a girl from uni just posted a picture of her newborn on FB, my ex is a recent new father ... loads of people. It seems to be happening to everyone but not me.
My gyno found a uterine polyp which I am having removed in ten days which I am terrified about. I know that this can hamper chances of getting pregnant but I am also terrified that it has done my insides damage. I am dreading the doctors telling me that I will never become pregnant.
REading this back I feel ridiculous. And I know there are more important things in the world. But I want this so badly and my illogical anxious mind seems to be taking over and I don't know what to do. I have exercises from the psychologist that I am trying to put into practice but this afternoon my mind just isn't strong enough, I don't know why. I want to cry. My husband tries to understand but I think he gets bored of the same old upsets so I don't feel like I can talk to him.
Has anyone ever had any similar experience?
Thank you.
V