So I've always had this fear of HIV (since my father passed away when I was 16 years old)
I had an HIV scare months back when I was sick for weeks on end after performing oral on a guy I was seeing.
Now I'm in another HIV scare and so afraid to test next week.
2 weeks after performing oral and frottage with a guy who is the brother of a friend and I was seeing at the time (who claims he tests every year and has come up negative) I became very ill, was diagnosed with an upper respiratory infection which then became allergies this week.
It will be 5 weeks since the encounter happened on monday and on the 6th week I'm going into a sexual health clinic for a full STD panel and rapid HIV test.
I can't shake that he may have infected me with the virus again even though that night I felt like I could trust him.
Another reason I am afraid is because the night after he completely cut off contact with me and won't respond to my texts and it's not as if I can just make his sister tell me his sexual status at all.
Once again, I feel sad, disposable, used and lost. I've never had sex before and now I'm afraid that I have HIV and will never get to feel that emotional connection in an intimate relationship with someone because I have convinced myself I am HIV positive with no results.
I know I was stupid but I don't know where to go from here. I suffer from anxiety and depression and just feel like caving in and giving up. Every time I think of HIV or relationships I want to cry and hurt myself.