So I have been struggling with depression for over 10years now. I had some really rocky years, but then I got (what I thought) "better". I knew that I would never be depression/anxiety free, but I was "coping" and doing positive things with my life.
For a few months I have started having a lot of the deep dark thoughts that I used to have at the beginning, but I did the I'll ignore them and hope they will go away thing. Then I started to reflect about things, and actually realised that I have really been better....I've just been putting on a front and appearing to be well. It made me see the world differently, I watched rather than participated on what has been going on. This world is such a sad, stressful, depressing place.
So I'm at a crossroads right now. I admitted my mood to a few people I am close to on nmp a week ago, I lost my strength, I lost my fight...I thought I'd break it down, and then put myself back together again and I would feel better, so I put myself back together again, went back to work and appeared to have that strength back...but really all it was was a front...again, and my reward for that was 3 long hard days at work which involved me being insulted by colleagues and put on with lots of work. I am off for 4 days now, so once again I'm alone with my thoughts, and again I'm back to square 1...I actually feel worse because I feel like I have been a drain on my friends on here, and me being like this means I cannot be there for them in their time of need...which tbh was the only thing I was good for on this earth.
This is how my depression works. It drains me, and then drains the people around me....until I am alone.
So I have a choice....I can either find some strength from somewhere (which has been proving tough) and appear to be "well" so that I can integrate back into the world around me...or...I can stay as I am. Either way its to be alone.
(I know people will suggest the doctors, the therapy, the meds, the talking...all that seems to do is allow the front to continue...I feel this is how my brain is set, this is my destiny). Sorry for this depression post, I just needed to release something, somewhere ... to help me process my thoughts without putting it all on one person.