hi all,
new here so excuse me if this has all been discussed before, I did have a look but couldn't find anything...
my partner has been suffering for anxiety for at least a year now and went to the doctors who confirmed it was GAD.
they didn't prescribe him anything, told him to go try therapy, change of diet and exercise.. he did none of this!
the main problem he suffers with is his stomach, he thinks he's going to be ill all the time with a tummy bug, he wont eat certain foods now as he thinks these triggered it or paranoid things aren't cooked sometimes. He is such a poor eater as it is I'm finding it difficult to cook him food without him fretting over it.
he is obsessed with looking at his stools, (sorry TMI) if its a different colour he panics. he rang 111 yesterday as he had a dry month and white covering on his tongue!
I've tried talking him into exercise but he wont, as he is on his feet all day and he thinks that is his exercise - I've tried to explain that he is busy with work and it not relaxing so not the same. he is certainly not overweight but is very unhealthy, poor diet, smokes, hates any form of exercise.
I just need a bit of a rant and some advice to help him, it sounds awful on my part but he is very difficult to live with. Every day its, something else, his tummy made a funny noise or dry tongue!
I also wanted to ask if anger issues were linked in any way, he is very short tempered and the stupidest, little thing wind him up (he didn't eat a few nights ago coz he couldn't open a tin of something so he flipped out and sulked)
we have children together and his constant fretting and talking about how ill he is rubbing of on our youngest, she complains she's ill a lot and we never know whether it true or not!
any help on how to help him would be appreciated
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also wanted to say, he used to suffer from panic attached and struggled with his breathing - he felt like he always had to take a deep breath to breathe. he managed to overcome this.
he's also very negative, when looking online at anxiety he always looks at the negative things, just a quick look at how to help, I've wrote him lists of things that may help but to no success :(