There are a few local ladies on a well known dating site whom I feel I have a lot in common with. However, I'm nervous around new people and they expect to go out on a date and do something like go to a event of some kind. The problem is I've never dune such a thing and my mind goes blank just thinking about meeting up

Socially I'm quite backwards but I'm also desperately lonely and want a woman in my life and its ripping me apart inside

I don't know how to approach the matter or anything