I'm not really sure what you're saying here. Do you think you're coping pretty well and feel you don't need medication? If so, why the CBT?
------- My issues that everyone has said and I've always believed have been social anxiety and gad. I wanted cbt for the social anxiety (though this has improved as I said I started work full time this year and that job has me being in contact with numerous ppl and taking charge as well) and to help get my life sorted out, he's come out with that he thinks it's moderate depression and if that was sorted the rest would just go away.
Unfortunately, this isn't as clearcut a decision as you may think. Uncontrolled maternal anxiety and/or depression can affect the baby too, both immediately and in the longer term. Babies born to anxious or depressed mothers tend to have
lower birth weights, be
born prematurely and have impaired
neuronal development. As children and adults they are more prone to
asthma,
dyslexia and to have
learning difficulties. They are also much more likely to develop anxiety disorders and/or depression later in life.
Before becoming pregnant you really need to discuss your treatment options thoroughly with your family doctor and gynecologist and also an obstetrician if possible.
------- I've read about things like that, in this day and age though who isn't anxious etc to some extent or down from time to time. I think me feeling down is just due to my miserable life right now to be honest with you, anyone living the life I do right now would feel down.
Venlafaxine may, or may not cause emotional numbing. This is something which all antidepressants can potentially do. Whether you're affected depends more on individual reactions than the meds themselves. Just because you experienced it with one SSRI doesn't mean they will all affect you that way.
Venlafaxine is as likely to cause sexual dysfunction as most of the others. The only ones which usually don't are Wellbutrin (bupropion), Remeron (mirtazapine) and Desyrel, Oleptro (trazodone). Trazodone may enhance the libido at doses above 200mg/day.
------- this is the side effect I didn't want to go through again either I don't want the sexual issues on top. I've had mirtazapine due to the weight gain issues wouldn't again. Is wellbutrin and the other avaliable over here. And I'm presuming if at anytime did I get pregnant they wouldn't be OK to take.
Wellbutrin is a very stimulating antidepressant which many with anxiety disorders find hard to cope with, but small adjuvant doses (<=75mg) may counter SSRI/TCA caused sexual dysfunction, usually without increasing anxiety. The slow-release versions of the med seem to be a little more effective than the immediate-release formulation.
Supplementing a SSRI with 30mg Buspar (buspirone) can significantly reduce sexual dysfunction. Mianserin (Bolvidon, Depnon, Norval, Tolvon) at 15-20mg/day has been reported to ease dysfunction in about 60% of cases when taken daily (the almost chemically identical mirtazapine can also be beneficial but anecdotally isn't quite as good as its mianserin parent). It may take 3-4 weeks to become active. The 5-HT3 antagonist ondansetron (Zofran), a potentially very effective anti anxiety med BTW, supposedly temporarily reduces dysfunction if taken 2-3 hours beforehand, but cost might limit its use.
------ So there's nothing apart from those three that doesn't cause the sexual issues or to take an SSRI and have to take something else as well to counter the sexual issues effects of it.
While classified as a SNRI, venlafaxine is really only a SSRI. Sertraline is generally considered the safest antidepressant to be on if pregnant, or breast-feeding.
----- Sertraline was the other he mentioned wanting me to be on maybe, I just don't want the sexual issues it frustrates me even more.
I just don't have time to wait years in my eyes with wanting a family I'm 35 now which is making me wary about going back on medication as well, though when I have been on medication before I didn't noticed a difference apart from the side effects.
I'm back to see him a couple of weeks. Just never had one before trying to hound me into medication. I do have to see my doctor soon about an unrelated issue but I'll ask her what she thinks as well.
I'd be getting a second opinion.