red dot on skin

[helenhoo]

asked boyfriend to look if it was scabby and he said no, if it was normal circle he said yes but worried he's saying that to shut me up.

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asked boyfriend if it was scabby - said no. said it was normal circle size and colour, what if he's lying?

[Bigboyuk]

Get back to your CBT modules Helen its now getting out of control we aren't reassuring you any more ok ATB

[KK77]

asked boyfriend if it was scabby - said no. said it was normal circle size and colour, what if he's lying?

So you trust strangers on an internet forum more than your boyfriend?

Flattery will get you everywhere and nowhere Helen

[helenhoo]

I had calmed down over it but because i cant see it properly it stresses me out. My boyf said isn't scabby ans doesn't feel scabby but worried it is

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its always been a little raised, one of those freckles kn freckles types, with middle darker and raised but always had it.

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how many of you would believe your OH if they look at something for you? Is it possible I'm finding something from nothing.

[nomorepanic]

Yes you are finding something from nothing but we keep telling you that - now you have to believe it.

[helenhoo]

I somehow, very nearly broke neck doing so, managed to pinch back fat and fold up so i could see the freckle.

No scab but may have tiny spot right on the edge. As symmetrical as can be.

But why do I still feel urge to check again and

I have my CBT workbooks out.

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I am slim so to pull fold up bloody hurt!

[nomorepanic]

I am slim so to pull fold up bloody hurt!

So why are you doing it then?

[helenhoo]

reassurance as my boyfriends wasn't enough.

[nomorepanic]

Well if you can't trust him then I doubt we can help to be honest.

[Bigboyuk]

So True Nic and Helen you have your CBT worksheets at hand now so when you want to check your spots etc refer to these work sheets please, no amount of reassurance from us is going to help you so no point in asking really thought I would let you know ATB