Originally Posted by
ankietyjoe
The solution is one of those things that's really, really easy.....to say.
You just don't think about it or react to it, it's that simple.
I used to be exactly like you, word for word.
You wake up with a pounding heart? So what? It's not dangerous, it's just your perception of danger and your resulting reaction that's the problem. I know, because I used to be the same. I'd wake up, realise my heart rate was banging away at 140bpm and say 'oh shit oh shit oh shit......'. I'd tell myself I couldn't take it anymore, which is a waste of time. I had no choice. Once you 'get' this, it becomes easier. It rarely happens any more, but when it does I just get up, go for a pee, shuffle into the kitchen and get some water, sit down and take a few sips, and lay back down again. All the while my heart will be banging away at 120-140bpm. By the time I've done it all and actually got back into bed, the worst has passed though. Usually takes about 5-10 minutes.
To be clear, the heart rate isn't the problem, it's US and our reaction to it that's the problem. I also don't think a beta blocker helps (I used to take them) as they're not a quick fix. If anything, they're a placebo in the short term and have little to no effect in the first hour or so after taking them, by which time the panic is invariably over.
I found it much better to find the solution within myself, as it's then portable and I can take it anywhere, in any situation. And to be clear, my heart rate obsession used to be deeply ingrained. I could tell my partner what my heart rate was within about 1-2bpm at ANY time without even checking. I could feel it I was so obsessed with it.
But anyway, like I said...it's easy to say, less easy to do.
Just try ignoring it tonight. Even if you wake up with your heart rate banging away actually say out loud 'so what?'. It always passes and it's NOT dangerous in any way.
Good luck.