Re: How to deal with fear of surgery
ErinKC
Personally, the fact you're putting off exercise and sex (two very important things for a happy life essentially) would say to me that, if I were you, I'd get the surgery done.
Complications can happen with surgery - just like there could be a 'complication' when you cross the road.
People who are very, very ill undergo lifesaving surgery all the time and most come out of it without any complications at all.
My (nearly) 80 year old uncle, who has been battling heart disease for 30+ years underwent an unrelated procedure a few months ago and came out fine. This is on a background of CABG and abdominal aorta aneurysm surgery! He's been doing great ever since.
As you don't mention anything else health-related in your post, I assume you're a healthy (probably young) person. Therefore, in these cases your chances are VERY VERY VERY small for any complications.
Go ahead with your surgery if the surgeon suggests it - there's no point sacrificing sex and exercise just because your anxiety is dictating to you.
Good luck
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