But accepting our feelings are part of our recovery. When you fight something it fights back.
For example: I am having suicidal thoughts. OK, this doesnt mean I am going to do anything. If I accept these thoughts for what they are and try to find something else to do like read a self help book (The Feeling Good Handbook by David D Burns M.D. is my bible, it covers pretty much everything). Or going for a walk or doing some kind of distraction or deep breathing exercise. (The Benson Method is good try googling it). Acceptance is part of the recovery process. We cannot be in total control of our feelings and emotions all the time.