Hi, im new to the site today but glad ive found a place where there are more people like me!
Ive been off work for a year now, basically ive always been a worrying type of person but its never really controlled me, then after my 2nd pregnancy I went slightly mental and was diagnosed with OCD. Personally I dont think it was ever OCD its just anxiety about everything!
I went through a bad divorce and then an assault and my life just fell apart at the seams, my boss didnt believe me about the assault, he fired me which made me believe I was to blame for it all and made me even worse. I had a couple of jobs after that but just couldnt hold them down, anytime someone criticised me i took it right to heart and thought yep they're right im useless i do everything wrong etc etc. and the self loathing got so bad i started self harming a lot, doing drugs, drinking and trying to commit suicide, not a good time for me at all. Im finally back on track and dont take my antidepressants anymore, been off them for 6 months now, no drugs (and dont plan on ever taking them again) i only drink when i go out, maybe once a month and its fine, i cope well with it (used to break down in tears a lot or become violent on alcohol) and I havent cut myself or attempted suicide for 6 months now. Ive been booked in for NHS counselling starting in Feb and hopefully this will 'fix' the rest of me and boost my confidence.
But although I feel a lot better and Im working myself up to thinking about applying for jobs again , the same thought paralyses me with fear. What if I cant cope with a job? what if my boss is the same as the guy who fired me? what if they dont care and just sack me if i have a relapse? could i cope with the rejection again? what if im terrible at my job? what if no-one likes me? all these thoughts are racing through my brain all the time and its making me really panicky and anxious, ive been in tears to my boyfriend about it 3 nights this week and I havent even had an interview yet!
Has anyone else been through this?