Afternoon
I'm hoping some of you will know where I'm coming from with this one. It drives me mad.
I'm always checking things.
Sounds odd....but there are certain things I feel I have to check lots and lots. It becomes part of my routine, only the routine is getting longer and more irrational! It usually isn't a problem on my days off, but work days is much worse.
So - here are the things, before I go to bed:
Front door locked
Sofa not on fire (I smoke)
Ashtray safe (I now fill it with water to be on the 'safe side')
Backdoor locked
Catflap locked.
Oven and cooker off.
This might not sound too irrational, but the number of times I have to keep checking makes it a problem.
The worst thing now (and for some time) has been setting my alarm clock. Oh god this sounds, and is, so stupid!
I work shifts which start at some ungodly hour. A few years ago I overslept a few times and turned up for work late. This is a big 'no no' in my world, and so I became really anxious about it. It developed into insomnia the nights before I had to work. I was so worried about sleeping in that I wouldn't go to sleep.
Anyway...now I sleep a bit better, but I get so obsessive about setting alarms! I have 4 alarms 2 next to my bed with snooze, and 2 across the other side of the room. And then I check it loads and loads. It can take me about half an hour to believe that I have actually set them!
I haven't overslept and been late for work since 2003, so it is not really rational at all! Recently though, someone was calling for me at 7am to go somewhere and I was fast asleep....so that has increased my anxiety all over again.
I'm sorry it is sooooooo silly and I know that. I know it's obsessive compulsive and I know it will get worse and extend to other areas if I don't knock it on the head.
So I was just wondering if anyone out there has any advice for 'checking'. I've read about it and you are supposed to just not do it and feel uncomfortable. Then I don't sleep! But any advice would be great because I feel like a right wally!
Thanks guys
xxx