Hi I am having a particularly neurotic time.
I feel sick, nervous, stressed and to be honest scared about an school appeal hearing I have to attend in May. I know this anticipatory anxiety business is 'fear of the fear', and it is hideous.
I got the letter this morning, there are two hearings, one with the school representative and ALL the other parents (OMG OMG OMG!) and then another one, another day, with my hubby and the independant appeal panel which includes three men and the appeal clerk (OMG OMG OMG).
I know I will lose it. I have successfully managed to avoid most of the situations that cause my panic attacks and they have reduced quite significantly as a result. I know I am my own worst enemy because I anticipate the worst scenario and will stress myself out about this until it is over.
Its all those people, arghhhh, its being in a confined space with the door closed, its having to sit down in a crowd, its having to wait in a waiting area with people, to speak to the panel, I will feel trapped and I will feel like I am going to choke to death or make a ridiculous fool of myself. I want Harry Potter's invisibility cloak, or Dorothy's red shoes ("theres no place like home"), or even better, let me disappear into a puff of smoke like the wicked witch of the west (OK so I have been watching too much children's TV!!).
I try to focus on why I am going; I want a better high school for my son, he deserves it. The rational part of me knows that the meetings will not take too long, but meetings, or groups are my worst nightmare. I can cope shopping (until I get in a queue) because I keep moving, but being in a meeting takes me back to my horrible panic attacks when I was working, and when I was at Uni.
I could do with sleeping until the day, I have diazepam I could take on the day but really I need to be attentive, not slurring my words, besides Diazepam will not stop me from feeling panicky, it might take the edge off my nerves. I will be fidgeting around like I do, drawing attention to myself, and I will be paranoid that they everyone thinks I am wierd.
Has anyone else had to attend a school appeal hearing? How did you cope? If anyone has been through this and can share their experience I would be very grateful.
Thanks,
Freaky