Re: Sad news today--would you visit?
If you really feel unable to visit then you should stay away...there is no point in making yourself worse.
That said, you could actually view this as an ideal opportunity to give your fears a bit of a challenge. Health anxiety always makes us totally self absorbed, self focused and, in many ways, selfish. I am not saying you are being selfish in this specific instance but I know that when I was deep in the loop I would use my health anxiety as an 'excuse' to almost escape from the day to day demands of life.
I suppose what I'm trying to highlight is the importance of not accepting the victim mantle...it is easy to fall into the trap and once done is awfully hard to escape from as we then see ourselves as ill and more importantly demand that those around us see us as ill....this is the ultimate paradox with health anxiety as we really need to convince ourselves that we are not actually physically ill but we can easily fool ourselves further by our behaviours.
Sorry to make such a lenghty reply but just wanted to try and look at this from an angle you may not have considered. Hope all turns out well.
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Wake me up with your amphetamine blast
Take me by the collar and throw me out into the world
Rock me gently and send me dreaming of something tender
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