Hi all. As I have posted elsewhere I'm living with health anxiety and I haven't told my GP about it, apart from some random hints. I did go to a private psychiatrist a couple of times a few years back, who said that my underlying problem is depression, which is causing the anxiety, but I stopped going when she wanted to put me on medication. I've been trying to cope alone since - in good times it's working, in bad times it's not.
Anyway, I've been feeling down lately because of my anxiety and I also struggle with other parts of life sometimes. The other day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight, can't recall what it was about, all I remember is the feeling of hopelessness and despair I felt and the unfairness of the whole thing, and I stormed out, went to the kitchen, where I saw a knife and thought it would be so easy to cut myself and make everything better quickly. I have thought about things like this before but then I always concluded that I couldn't hurt myself because I'd be conscious of the pain, but this time I wanted it and didn't care about the pain, just wanted to finish it quickly. Then I thought about my son in the next room and felt guilty, cried and felt better and this rush of feelings disappeared.
Now I'm a bit scared of myself and I feel guilty and think either that I am one of those attention seekers and it makes me feel ashamed, or that I could genuinely kill myself if I have another sudden thought - I don't think about suicide, it was just that moment and I wonder what would have happened if I was alone in the flat at the time.
My paternal grandmother committed suicide at the age of 60 and my Mum's brother killed himself when he was 21. I know I should tell someone but that thought makes me anxious - what if my boyfriend and I split up one day and he takes our son because I am a danger to myself, etc... help me pls