I find it really amazing how looking at one little photo can cause such a strong emotion... sometimes happiness, sometimes sadness, sometimes anger etc etc.
I just saw a recent photo of my ex fiance with his girlfriends baby... Even though we split up a couple of years ago, this caused a huge shock to me. It was really horrible to see.
Our relationship wasn't good, and getting out of it was the best thing to do, even though it was very hard. But we had been engaged, and he was my possible future - husband, father of my children.
It was a nasty break up, but even after everything that happened, after everything I went through... I let him back into my life. My choice. Sometimes I regret that, and sometimes I don't... But every now and again he would ask me to give us another go. It wasn't until recently that I saw a pattern forming... Every time he split up with a girl, he would come running back to me. I was his safety net. I fell for it everytime. I got sucked back in. Believing that I was "something special", that he really loved me...
He ripped my heart out, and stamped all over it. More than once.
The other relationships he's been in since me haven't been anything serious. But this relationship he's in now is serious. I'm finding it hard accepting that. In this case time has not been a good healer... I'm astonished that one photo has made me feel this way, and brought up so many emotions. My heart fell.
For those who know me and what I went through with this man, they won't be able to understand why I feel this way. But seeing him with her baby... I just couldn't stop crying. For a number of reasons.
Just had to get that out.