Relationships - Do actions really speak louder than words ?
Hello Folks
I'm just wondering if anyone can help me out here.
One of the major factors that makes me very low, is my relationship.
I feel a complete bitch for even writing that but it is all getting too much.
He has been by my side while I have been ill, for over 7 yrs.
Basically, my chap treats me with tenderness and devotion. Yeah, I know what's the problem then!
My point is this he shows he cares in many ways, but with actions, never words. He is more than happy to give hugs and make a nice dinner if im working. But, I ache to hear him actually SAY something, about me and how he feels. I think this would really help me feel loved. I have told him that his words are important to me. But, nothing.
I feel like his comfy slippers not his woman. I don't mean to sound harsh, but well, im so sad being nothing special. I was to him once.
What do you think ????
I hope someone answers cos it took real balls to dare post this eeeek I feel sooooooo guilty already.
Cheerio
Julia
Last edited by Hope 2; 12-02-09 at 21:00.
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