I know we were never going out, nothing has ever happened between us, but i've liked a guy from work since I started there in October. I finally worked up to asking him out for a drink in January, which he said yes and then no to.
After I asked him why he said he's happy single (this was at the end of January). So I kept my distance, played it cool but also tried not to fade into the background too much. I was finding anything to talk to him about, secretly waiting in hope that we'd maybe get together someday when he's ready.
I told him this week that i'd really like to talk to him (I suffer with servere anxiety so talking about things is important to me). He said yes ok, but then last night when I asked him when he wants to meet up he said he doesn't know because he'll be doing things with the new girl he's seeing. I dropped my phone and burst into tears. I know it was just a huge crush but still I can't help how I feel. I have such strong feelings for him. I feel like he lied to me.
I ended up having to txt him last night everything I wanted to say, I wanted to do it face to face but after that I couldn't wait. At first he txt me saying "well im seeing someone now sorry" (almost like saying if I'D made a move. I thought that was pretty blunt). I txt him again just one more time and he said "i'm sorry didnt wanna upset ya". Then I just left it. Phoned and txt my friends. One of them i'm going out n about with today because she wants to cheer me up.
I only got about 3 hours sleep last night and almost gave myself a panic attack over it, I felt sick and shakey. I tried to go back to bed but everytime I closed my eyes i'd see him with another girl (I don't even know what she looks like).
Sorry I just need to talk :( I feel like i've lost all hope that I was hanging on to.