Re: his depression is back
in my family its the other way around and
if i were your husband - i would be trying to cuddle up with him, stroking his back and asking him what he wsould like to do together.
This way you might gain his openess. You have to cook the food that jhe really likes, and not to force him into doing anything. If you do it will only cause more tension.
Its the way i would have liked my husband to be...but he is not,,,he is making me feel guilty...
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