hiya
has anyone got a fear of spending the rest of your life with someone?
i've been with my partner for over 2 years now and have a beautiful little boy, we're getting married next year. the trouble is i'm really scared of spending the rest of my life with one person and keep thinking of up and leaving. I've always had this problem (before i met my partner) and i just think what if in 10 years the marriage fissles out.
My partner is aware i do this so tolerates my threats to leave but i worry how long he will for
I really do love him so much and know he's the only one for me but i wish i knew why i feel this way.
it's now affecting all relationships with family and friends where i push them away and say i dont want to know them anymore
my parents had a very rocky relationship and ive seen lots of relationships go soar
so does anyone know if there's such a thing as a commitment phobic? and how to overcome it?