Sorry had to get this out of my head! or i'll die!

[Hannahlou84]

Hi Kym,

Did you read the replies? Noone thinks badly of you. I know it is hard not to worry, but reread them and look at the support you have here. Everyone is behind you 100%. Not one person has said this is your fault, that you did anything to deserve this, or that you shouldn't be allowed to live your life. This is your perception, and it is inaccurate.

The question is not what people think, but what can be done to make you feel better? Do you see a counsellor? I think that would be a very good start if not. It will be hard, I'm not going to lie, but it needs to get to the root to start making you feel better, or else you can never heal. How about emailing the Samaritans? They have been helpful to me in the past, and it's a confidential service? I know I'm not much, but you can also contact me if you wish to contact someone who is understanding through personal reasons.

You take care,

Hannah x

[leo05]

hi kitty i can fully understand where you are coming as i to have been raped b4 so i know and can understand to a certain extent how you are feeling inside and i am here for you 100% and you can pm me anytime you want to ok

take care leo 05

[Antipodes]

Awww Kitty,

I am SOO sorry to hear of your experience. I can only imagine how you feel.

Your trauma makes you a candidate for Posttraumatic Stress Disorder ("PTSD"), which is my beast. When you see a therapist / doctor / psychologist / psychiatrist please ask them if they think PTSD could be part of your problem.

I hope we get to chat some more Kitty,


sending you lots of hugs {{{{{{{{{{Kitty}}}}}}}}}

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[LisaS]

hi kitty,

so sad to hear of your horrible trauma you endured.. sending you a big big hug..

like nigel said, you do sound like a strong woman to have dealt with this on your own.. I do agree with the others though to have some counselling or even better a psychologist.. i promise it helps.. and it is strictly confidential..

I always believe people get their comeupance in the end and i'm sure the pigs that harmed you will get theirs.
You can end up making your life better and becoming a stronger person from it and even helping others..

you have made a big step in sharing this and we all support you.

big hugs,
lisa
xxx

"do not fear to hope...Each time we smell the autumn's dying scent, we know that primrose time will come again"

[rammie]

Hi Kitty,

I have just read your post and that is an awful thing that has happened to you.
Please try and remember that this is NOT YOUR FAULT. You are worth a lot more than him. He is animal and he should be punished for what he has done to you.
That I hope can come in time but the most important issue right now is you and how you can preserve your quality of well being.
I have had similar happen to me when I was 15 and felt exactly how you do now.
I know you feel uncomfortable talking about this at the moment but I can tell you from experience that it will get easier for you to discuss the more you do talk about it to the right people.
This is a fantastic website that is helping me with the difficulties I am experiencing at the moment.
Don't feel pressured in to do anything, just choose a time when you are ready to.
Take care of yourself.
Rammie. Xx