I have recently been getting really anxious about having sex with my boyfriend. Last time we had sex I felt like crying and I really didn't want go do it. He has a very high sex drive and so do I. The problem is I prefer to just self-pleasure when he is not around. I really don't enjoy sex at all at the moment. He's always pestering me when I'm tired and trying to get me to dress up in stockings etc when all I want to do is put on my pyjamas and sleep or watch TV. He thinks I am selfish because I use sex toys when he's not around. I'm dreading him coming home tonight and wanting sex, I feel really trapped. HELP!!