Re: Lon-term Anxiety/Depression/OCD problems tackled-now catastrophic relapse.Plse He
Hi Widge
I am in many ways in a different life situation to you, as well as being a different age and gender. However I think I can understand some of your feelings here. I find that at night I feel so much worse about everything. For a long time it seemed like as soon as it got dark, my personality flipped and I went from being relatively calm and stable to feeling panicky, hopeless and contemplating suicide. I was kept up by thoughts about the world and how wrong human society is. How evil we all are. I couldn't see any good at all in the human race. I spent my evenings and nights browsing the net reading forums about suicide and sites about medication and psychiatric conditions. I would feel agitated and angry with myself and lash out at myself. The only way I could control it was to take tranquilizers. I felt like my night time personality was undermining any progress I was making during the daytime. For months I couldn't get to sleep before 5am.
I'm now in a slightly better situation. I am managing to keep myself occupied enough during the day and taking the right medication to be calmer at night. Lately though I have been feeling pretty bad again.
Do you get regular exercise? Exercise can help to improve your sleeping and remove some of the energy, I found that a build up of anxious energy made me feel angry and fuelled the self-hatred I felt. Have you considered limiting yourself to using the internet during the day and evening? I can understand just how lonely the middle of the night is though and usually the internet is the only way to feel any human contact. I find that listening to talk radio can calm me down and take my mind off things. Also drawing or writing down thoughts can help.
Your counsellor sounds like she is helpful and understanding. Late night internet browsing is probably a habit you will have to break, set a time at which you will turn off the computer. You could try banning yourself from certain sites. I have a friend who is a student and he has huge problems with being distracted by websites when he is supposed to be studying. He uses DNS to block himself from certain websites. I'm not sure if anything I have said here has been helpful but I hope it is in some way helpful to you.
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