Re: What on earth to do?
It's a cruel thing with Anxiety that we already find it hard to trust people completely and it would be remiss of anyone who's in a long term relationship or is married to say they have never been remotely tempted in any way shape or form, but the difference is actually acting on it!
I think that this is a little paradoxial in so much as you are dealing with the aftermath of your boyfriend cheating on you, but you also cheated on him.
Do you have confidence issues?
Is it perhaps that you are finding it hard to ignore this other person because he is showing an interest in you and it's flattering because you maybe feel rejected after your boyfriend cheating on you?
No one can tell you if you still love your boyfriend and 6 months is not a long time to get over cheating, but i have to question that you said your boyfriend means a lot to your life? does he not just mean a lot to you?
The grass is very rarely greener on the other side, and being in a relationship has it's ups and downs, particularly for anxiety and depression sufferers. from time to time i feel withdrawn from my husband, i love him dearly but sometimes i want him nowhere near me and wonder if i love him still...but it's the mind of an anxious person, it plays tricks on you, i persevere and luckily these phases are very short lived and for the most part my hubby and I are extremely close.
Give yourself time, give yourself space to relax, don't over think it, find a distraction - go for a walk, get some fresh air, see friends and family and in time you will see clearer.
Let us know how you're doing
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