when will it end

[jay]

No one seems to be helping me with my bullying problem. its like im the only person being bullied in the whole world. and im the problem not the bully!
I hate this feeling of hopelessness. feeling panicky. and everything else.
any ideas people?
please...
jay
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[kate]

Jay,

Can you give us some more information about what exactly is going on?

Give us as many details as you can, and I'm sure that we will be able to give you some advice.

Kate x

[nomorepanic]

Jay

Those that don't go in the chat room won't know the full story so perhaps if you typed it here then it would help you understand it more and we could offer some advice. Other people may have some good advice for you too.

Nicola

[Rennie1989]

my dad said ages ago 'put a mini tape recorder in ya sleeves or pocket etc and record what ya boss says to ya, give it to the police to listen then your boss will have some explainin to do'

try it, or report him!!!!!!!!!!!

jade

[jay]

here is my sad little life story!
i started to feel uneasy in june last year. i spoke to my manager about it, and she helped me by just listening offering advice, and helping. i then took her advice eventually after a lot of convincing that i had a problem. i found this website and ur all good to me, even when i am a complete bitch. im on medication at the mo. having counselling and had to take a week off work.
the reason. im being bullied by a boss. im ashamed of this. i cant speak to him about it. it gives me panic attacks. and has ruined everything that was good in my life.
im scared to go to work, to face hime, to be in the same room, even thinking about him, his car, or if hes going to bully me again
ive lost.
jay

[kate]

Hiya Jay,

Thanks for giving us some insight into your problems.

What form does the bullying by your boss take? Does he shout at you, or put you down? How exactly does he act in a bullying way?

Give us a little bit more info, Jay, and we should then be in a position to give you some advice.

Kate x

[Rennie1989]

i think he shouts at her, she told me in the chat room

how was the last post i wrote

jade

[jay]

he shouts at me.. and dont give me chance to have my say. and its unfair

[Rennie1989]

if i was you jay, i would slap him in the face

[benoo5]

i think jade,and her dad,has the best idea...rent,buy,or borrow,a tiny dictaphone,and record the abuse..that way,you have evidence to take to his boss,i take it that your not in a trade union!.......bryan.