oh dear i am havin such a bad time of late!Today i find myself in tears,AGAIN!It' as tho i am trying to pull myself free of quicksand and the harder i try the deeper i sink!It is stemming from guilt i think.My Mom is gettin on and it is sooo cold and she needs more help,but as i am terrifeid of driving i freeze at the thought of going there,it's only up the road but lots of ring roads and lights.i am a fairly new driver [passed last year,and have loathed it ever since!]i think my family think i am being lazy and selfish,they say not but i can hear the silent sighs of disapproval coming from them every time i say 'icant'!I feel pressured whichmakes it worse.i love my mom but she can be scathing at times,she has just rung me and i knew it would be about needing something[guilt again]of course she needs me she is 79 soon!She wanted to know if my son was in so he could take her shopping,but he isnt[guilt again]i was saying if she could wait till later i would come with someone to help out[ican do that]but my brother arrived at her house and she was so pleased to see him[even tho he gets angry with her over her drinking]i could hear his voice over the phone,and when she said i was on the phone,he just said 'OH'.and it has sooo upset me as i thought at least he and i had a good relationship [the other siblings three of them moved years ago.]I cant see a way out today ,i want the old me back,not this snivvelin shakin wreck!Thanks 4 listening guys.mary-rose.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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