Hi everybody...I am new here. and here is my story:

My ex started taking prozac like 4 months ago and right after he started taking it he has changed completely. Not only with me but with everyone and the way he feels about life.
He just detached completely from me. I was still pregnant when he started taking it and left me pregnant many times. He came back and left. He stopped being the attentive and sweet loving man I met. He started finding excuses to keep himself busy and stay away from me. Now he said he fell out of love and is not in love with me anymore.

We were having problems before though that is why he started taking it. We would fight a lot and my hormones did not help at all. But even then no matter how much we argued he still looked at me and his eyes would shine. He was still in love with me. He would leave but be on the phone or skype with me all day missing me like crazy.

So I don't know if he just stopped having 'that' feeling for me because he got tire of the arguments or because of the SSR'Is. WHen he started taking prozac he would leave me, this time making any excuses to argue and leave and he stopped calling me. Only after a weeks or so he would have contact and we would get together again.

The thing is that in all these 4 months he hasn't taken it regularly. He takes it for two weeks, then stops for one then starts, forgets a few days. So he has been real inconsistent with that. So that is why he says that the prozac is not having the effects that people write about in these forums or others that I sent to him to read. He says it has ha only a little effect on his moods, like he doesn't feel so much but apart from that he is fine.

So one of my questions is: If he hasn't taken them regularly will they have a huge of an effect in his personality or not? and what happened to his soul, his love for me? He used to adore me. We met last year at Amsterdam airport,we ended up being in the same plane to london, seats RIGHT next to eachother! We spent a few days in London. Then I left to my country where he went to be with me a few weeks later, dropped everything to bewith me. We moved together to another country with my two kids. I got pregnant right away. Then the fights started, but he adored me. Up until we came to this country and he started prozac and all his love for me is gone.

We had the baby two months ago and he has come back a few times to find an excuse, like that he feels trapped and he needs his freedom and so on. That he can't do the typical family life, he has to live life and so he leaves. I am now left with his baby and my two kids, who by the way adore the guy!
I am so lonely and confused.
Thanks in advance for any advice.
If he stops taking prozac can he ever feel the same way he felt for me before? Can those feelings ever come back? Is his love still there or is it gone forever.
I appreciate your opinion due to your own experience. Thanks so much.