Dear EJ
Sorry again,
Please don't be worrying yourself about any one else.
What you are doing is quite right.
It is a longish wait for your Dads funeral,so what are you expected to do
sit all day and twiddle your thumbs.
Look after yourself and take no notice,
Be dignified and don't put up with any crap from your Dad's relation
You have to get on with your life and think of yourself and your nearest and dearest.
All my love
helen