I'm feeling really depressed lately. I didnt know where to post this I think it's good here. I'm 30 and never been in a relationship with a guy never even had a guy like me. In school I was quiet and all the guys I liked didn't like me they called me ugly and made me feel bad about myself and after school I had social anxiety and other anxieties. It got bad I barely leave the house. I haven't bothered all these years to go after a guy I figure they won't like me. All I ever wanted was a boyfriend and it's sad that I have to watch everyone around me get married and kids when I never even had one guy. I know a lot of the people are not nice people and don't deserve the guys they are with it's not right but that's the way it is. It's bad enough dealing with anxiety and depression I finally found a therapist that's good but don't feel like I'm getting anywhere thought only been a month I'm going to him. I'm always told I need to like myself and not worry about a boyfriend but I cannot do it. I sometimes think I look good then something ruins it. I still want a boyfriend and nothing will make me not be sad I don't have one. Being this age makes me want a boyfriend more I feel I getting older and don't want to miss chance at anything. I also like this celebrity guy hes someone I know I will never be with but liking him takes over my thoughts I feel happy to have someone to like but sad I'll never be with him. I'm tired of feeling like I'm not good enough and I feel like I have to change myself to be liked. I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. I know what's important in life and I know I don't need a boyfriend but I want a guy to be with I want to be loved and accepted. I spent long time wishing I looked like other girls wanting to be them so guys will like me to know what it was like to have a guy worship me. I'm tired of it I want to like myself and I don't know how why is it difficult for me to like myself. I'm sorry this post is all over the place but I've been down I need any advice anyone wants to give