Hi everyone, it's been a few weeks since I last posted here.
I'm trying to continue my battle but it's quite hard. I've come to a point where I think that my depression is caused by my at-home situation.
I'm 20 yo and live with my dad, while all my friends live on campus at university. It's a 2 hour travel everyday to uni, so I don't see my friends very often (except those who follow the same course as I do) and I never go out. I loved going out, but it's just not possible.
My dad has the money to pay for it, but he doesn't want to. I'm also not allowed to get a student job, so I can't save any money for it. My dad looks at my bank account every month to look at what I've spent, so I can't put any money aside either.
My dad has been very aggressive and verbally abusive as long as I can remember. Towards me and my mother.
Because he was so abusive, my mom cheated on my dad. When he found out, he beat her really badly (I was about 14 then) and I do remember very vividly how that looked. He did that a few times around that time, and then my mum quit us because she was too afraid.
Since then (about 6 years now) I live alone with my dad. He's very manipulating and verbally abusive, but on the other hand, he does everything for me that he can. But, I'm not allowed to see my mother. And that really saddens me. I really want a mom. But every time I say something about it, he reacts very aggressively.
Wow, this was quite a ramble, but my question really is: what should I do? Should I leave at home? He already threatened to kill my mum a couple of times, so I'm afraid he'll do the same to me then if he finds me..