I made it! Im home. I stayed 8 nights and 9 days in a wierd state..flew 5 hrs in both directions and switched planes twice both ways..on the weekend i took uber to the city and walked around and actually had fun! This is a first for me as sad as that is at 47. None of it was easy, but none of it was that hard either if that makes sense. Im headed to Hawaii in 6 weeks for 10 days now, its our 20th wedding anniversary. If i can accomplish this anyone can.