Hi everyone, so for the past few months I've been having cramping pain up to two weeks before my period along with what felt like random weird sensations in my right ovary. My cycle has been really weird during that time too (28 days, 29 days, then 26 days this latest cycle) and I had some spotting right before my period which never ever happened to me.
When my period ended this cycle, I noticed I still could see pink blood in my cervical fluid when I'd use the toilet/tissue and sometimes spots on my undies pretty much every day.
I went to to the gyno today and although my recent pap smear was negative for HPV, a transvaginal ultrasound revealed that I had a walnut-sized fibroid in my uterus. I'm 31 and never been pregnant and have been wanting to conceive recently.
The doctor told me not to stress about the fibroid as it's small (walnut-sized doesn't sound very small to be but okay...) and if it bothered me, I could come back every 6 months to keep track of its growth. He knows I am trying for a baby and has told me not to worry about it and it shouldn't interfere.
Still, is this something I should press into getting surgically removed asap? I really want to conceive as soon as possible and seeing constant spotting is distressing and it's really hard for me not to "stress" when I'm always being reminded I have a fibroid inside my uterus when I use the restroom. Is the mid-cycle bleeding permanent and I need to use panty liners for the rest of my childbearing days? I know that stress hormones can make fibroids worse/grow, so I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place right now.