Good morning. I glanced over my last post and thought how political and upset I was the day. Well today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day in the US, and just down the street from my home the memorial is being held. It's amazing how polarized things are becoming in this country.
Just yesterday my father-in-law whom I speak to every Sunday morning called to rant and complain about how blacks and whoever else isn't like him (including myself) are hating on the incoming President. My father-in-law, who by the way is a minister, said something else that really stunned me. He asked, were "they" having an MLK Parade in our town? I suppose it was the anger in his voice that really threw me. And for a long time after our "conversation" his words raddled me.
I don't mean to make this a forum for my political feelings and I'm sorry if it's beginning to look like that. But when you suffer like we do with panic and anxiety the less stressers we face the better. While I often speak about giving ourselves a little love and compassion to help us cope with every day situations. Listening to someone who I love rant about us against them really pushes up my stress meter.
I'm really lucky in the fact that I live in a really rural part of the country where I can easily "blend in" with the butt-as$ backward population that apparently lives around me. Still when you feel the walls closing in, you feel the walls closing in. I often wonder when one group of the population gets marginalized, who's going to be next? Compassion and empathy for ourselves and others is the key to living a just and whole life. So why do I feel so worried?