I am finding things are getting me down alot at the moment.
I was kind of doing well with my anxiety and depression but for some reason I seem to have hit another low.
Recently I stayed at my mums house for a while, I was there initially for a rest and abit of a break away from my stressful home life, instead I got there and things were ok then I was told via text that I wasn't welcome back home and that I had to stay at my mums.
This was unexpected and made me panic but I tried to deal with it as best I could. I really wanted to come on here but at my mums I dont have internet access so I really missed this site!
Anyway I was at my mums for longer than expected and eventually after much persuasion I managed to come back home.
Now I am here I feel incredibly low, I don't know wether its to do with being away from my 'safe place' while i was at my mums or wether it is because of the atmosphere here.
Thing is at my mums isn't much different. Me and my mum don't really get on when we live together. We just argue and wind each other up (unintentionally)
I feel like I am between a rock and a hard place right now, I am arranging to pack all my stuff up here and move to my mums in a few weeks and cut all ties here, as a way of moving on and trying to be independant.
Once I am at my mums I wont be able to stay there long (my mum don't want me living there) so I am going to have to look for a place of my own.
This scares the crap out of me, I have never lived alone so I don't know what to expect or how I will cope. I don't know why I am worrying about it now because it might take ages for me to even find somewhere through housing associations etc.
I suppose the living alone thing is something that has always scared me.
I would feel vunerable and I will probably end up in a bad area somewhere knowing my luck. See I KNOW im thinking negatively but I can't help it when it comes to things like this.
Urgh I suppose I am writing this to vent abit and also ask other peoples opinions on living alone etc?
Is it as hard as I am thinking? is it do-able when we have anxiety/agoraphobia?
Once I am back at my mums I wont be able to come to this site
So i am going to make the most of these few weeks before I leave and I will let you all know when I am going.
I definatly will miss this site