Re: Depressed about age and being single over 30
I wouldn't think you'd desire much to do with a guy who'd possess such a farcical attitude, forget the words of people of that ilk, thirty is extremely young, even if you were sixty, there's a lot of human beings out there who would love to strike a spark with you, it don't mean you're going to meet someone special but the potential is out there, at ANY period of one's life. It is useful to find peace with yourself and being by yourself, being in a meaningful relationship is a stunning experience, even more so if it's a growing and ever fulfilling blossom, but it's still just one layer of life, there is no rush or ruin if you are not in love, love is precious even if it is desirable.
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''...an utter depression of soul which I can compare to no earthly sensation more properly than to the after-dream of the reveller upon opium - the bitter lapse into everyday life, the hideous dropping off of the veil. There was an iciness, a sinking, a sickening of the heart, an unredeemed dreariness of thought which no goading of the imagination could torture into aught of the sublime.''