Hello
I would grateful for any advice regarding my situation as I am not sure what to do.
I am an active person, I always coordinate, organise and support others and have found lately that I cannot stop and just don't know how to switch off unless I go to sleep! I am physically and emotionally drained.
I am unable to leave things at home, if I see something out of place or not tidied up, I am compelled to sort it out otherwise it annoys me. Out of groups friends, I am the one who over the years always initiates and plans events, sorts everyone out and listens to peoples problems. I am now at a point where something I used to enjoy doing I can't bare the thought of doing and feel very negative about how much put in. I know that nobody is asking me to do this, I just feel the need to organise and take responsibility for things.
My job is HR is mentally draining and fast paced, I often find myself unable to switch off from the endless to do list and at times feel very anxious that I can't think straight. I sleep like a log but wake up early and automatically feel like the weight of the world is on my chest.
Last week for the first time in my life, I actually told my Manager how I was feeling. As soon as I said the words "anxious" I felt very emotional and did cry (which is unusual for me..!). Work have been very supportive and understanding and asked me to take a few days off work they even bought me DVD's and beauty products to force me to relax! The days off have been nice and have forced me to relax but as I write this e-mail, I feel anxious and worried!My brain just won't switch off it is always racing.
I am due to go back to work tomorrow but after talking to some friends they seem to think this isn't the answer and that I should really go to the doctor.
I feel apprehensive about going to the doctor in case how I am feeling is dismissed. I am a rationale and sensible person and I know that I will probably play down how I have been feeling but I guess this is what has contributed to the situation now.
My question is what should I do? I have planned time off in August and am trying to change how I approach things but do I need medical advice? Your advice would be much appreciated.