help i am falling apart.... depressed anxious feel like there is no way out ...having a really tough time and weening off sertraline too..my husband has told me he is depressed and love me no more...... we have been togetgher 8 yrs iam very scare and anxious about the future ??????? and then to top this off I have a self harming 14yr old with asd?adhd who has been very challenging for years ..and it was seeking help for this that bought out my husbands news ... He has not left but this is so painful... I can't stop crying having that horrible butterfly anxious feeling i feel sick and i am exhausted ... i so don't know what to do.... the docs are putting me on Mirtazipine in 2 weeks ..I really don@t know how to function...