Hi This is one for the men really but if women have any help it would be good to hear your thoughts..
Its a man thing..
Why are we so embarrased at going to the doctors??
Can you help me??
I am 26 and since when i first checked my testicles at i think 14, i found my right testicle was slightly diffrent than my left it had a small hard lump at the end which my left one didn't... This scared the hell out of me, i have thought about it everyday for the last 12 years but to embarrased to go to the docs..
Nothings changed regarding the small lump it hasn't got bigger or changed at all..
Surely after 12 years if it was cancer i would of knew about it by now or would i ????
The reason i brought this up is i have started CBT therapy and my therapist is an attractive young women and she asked me to look into my past and think of things that could of contributed to my anxiety, which that certainly has done but i am to emabarrased to say it to her..
I have an appointment with my doctor soon, and i have developed a good relationship with him, i think i could write it down and give him it to read as i would be to embarrased to talk about it out loud, but at least its a start..
Do you think because i have had it for 12 years its nothing to worrie about???
Look forward to your reply's
Cheers
Desprate Dan