Hello,
I have suffered with anxiety since I was 16. In fact my first panic attack was Christmas Day 2006. I come back from the pub and it was like some hit me with a cricket bat of panic. I will always remember that Christmas shaking in a bath tub not knowing what is happening with my body. Sadly its one reason why I don't like to celebrate Christmas because its the birthday or my anxiety.
Let me break down the root cause of my anxiety. Why did I get that panic attack. What events caused this attack. When I was younger I was involved with people I shouldn't of been and as a teen I smoked a lot of weed almost everyday and I started from a young age (about 14ish) drank cider (because it was cheap) and dabbled in harder drugs like cocaine and ecstasy. I don't ecstasy a couple of times and thinking I was cool being a idiot I remember saying to the lads are we getting pills this weekend. Now I was in school at the time and watched this awful video of a young girl who took a pill and her brain swelled and she died. Little did I know that video would trigger 10 years of hell for me. So that weekend I took 2 pills and smoked weed and I started getting a headache. I panicked I was so bad I walked for miles and miles crying praying to every god hoping I would survive this night and feel normal. When I woke up in the morning I was so glad to see the sunlight although I felt horrible but from that moment on I swore I would never do drugs like that again.
So Christmas Day 2006 I was in the pub with my mates and had a pretty good time and I got home and felt a little weird. I start feeling butterflies as you would when 'coming up' from a pill and panicked. Shit what if I have been spiked and I have to go through 6 hours or longer of torture and bang the anxiety postman knocked on the brain door and delivered a massive package of hell. It developed into a OCD I couldn't even trust my own day to get me a bottle of beer thinking he spiked me. This has sprung out of control now every time my back tingles or I get chills, butterflies in my stomach, hot flushes I panic and go into a downward spiral. Since 2006 I have not been able to trust strangers at a bar without watching them like a hawk pouring my drink. To have certain things I do to check I haven't been drugs. OCD like things.
I was wondering if anyone else as has this struggle? its a mix of phobias death, being spike, sickness, health and it has been eaten me up for many years and this is the first time I have fully recorded this. I have openly spoke about why but not to strangers over the internet (which seems to be the norm these days haha)
I don't know if I would ever get over it but I hope I do I have had spells where I have been able to go out and enjoy and see some parts of the world but I need to do my crazy OCD things to keep me sane (check bottle caps, cover the lid and always have a thought of my food or drink)
I know this is a long post and I'm writing this while struggling atm with some symptoms as described even know the last tea I had was hours ago and I made it myself. But I always have that voice saying what if they spiked the milk or sugar and its crazy I know but thats anxiety
Thanks for reading
Matt